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What is NLP?
| "NLP May Be The
Most Powerful Vehicle For
Change In Existence!" — Modern Psychology
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| Through NLP seminars and trainings Universal
Events have assisted hundreds of people to change their lives.
We can assist you to find ways of becoming more effective,
efficient and passionate at work, at home and at play.
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- NLP helps you find out what you want and how you
can get what you want.
- NLP teaches you to communicate more successfully
and create the right climate for success.
- NLP increases your sensitivity towards others body
language and signals and teaches you to maintain good
relationships with those close and not so close to
you.
- NLP opens doors to hidden resources, improves your
ability to concentrate, your ability to learn and
paves the way for new possibilities.
- NLP changes your behaviour positively so that you
can handle negative experiences and eliminate phobias,
stress, guilty feelings and depression.
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NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) began in
the early 1970s when two Americans, a mathematician called Richard
Bandler and linguist John Grinder, asked themselves a simple
but fascinating question: "What is it that makes the difference
between somebody who is merely competent at any given skill,
and somebody who excels at the same skill?" Several
extraordinary therapists that Bandler and Grinder studied
had amazing success with their clients. They decided to build
formal models of the linguistic and behavioural patterns of
three of them. Virginia Satir, Milton Erickson and Fritz Perls.
Bandler and Grinder named the process that they developed
in the course of their work modelling, and
it was the foundation of the body of knowledge that became
NLP.
People who are masters of their field often cannot explain
just how they achieve such excellent results. They are operating
at the level of unconscious competence - they perform without
thinking about what they're doing. As a result, it's very
difficult for them to teach their skills to someone else.
Modelling provides tools and techniques to "break down"
masterful performance into its component elements: strategies,
beliefs, physiology and more. With this information, it's
much easier to teach that skill to another person and enable
them to produce the very same excellent results.
Neuro-Linguistic Programming presupposes that the behaviour
of an individual can be changed by use of the specific language
and by constantly updating and upgrading an individuals "mental
software".
NLP allows you to change, adopt, or eliminate behaviours
as you desire. It provides you with skills and ability to
choose your mental, emotional, and physical states of well
being at any time. You learn how to improve your communication
skills, internally and externally. This transforms your relationships
and outcomes.
With NLP, you learn to grow from every life experience, thus
increasing your capacity to create a better quality of life.
NLP provides you with a profound set of tools for personal
and professional development.
NLP is a synthesis of a number of disciplines and offers
a systematic means of achieving consistently outstanding results
across a broad spectrum of human experience. It has been successfully
applied in a wide range of fields including business, health
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The following are the "presuppositions''
or assumptions on which NLP is based:
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The map is not the territory: Just
as a map does not fully show exactly how the territory
lies, our understanding of any event is only our "map"
of what really happened.
All of us use different "mental maps" from
each other to understand and perceive the world and
events that we interact with everyday.
And of course, a person's "mental map" is
not all that they are, their whole personality is their
"territory" which is much greater than their
map alone.
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| The map is just a guide to understanding that
person. Understanding our own mental maps can help us improve
and adjust the way we are or have experienced anything. Understanding
someone else's mental maps helps us communicate more effectively
to them and cooperatively produce amazing results.
Behaviour and change are to be evaluated in terms
of context: Every behaviour has meaning. The meaning
of that behaviour, however, depends on the circumstances that
are happening at the time of the behaviour, that is the context
in which it happens. I could flap my arms but that has no
meaning unless I tell you I'm trying to fly or trying to dry
my sleeves.
Understanding the context gives a person greater understanding
of what is happening in any given moment for themselves or
another person and allows them to communicate or produce greater
results.
Underlying every behaviour is a positive intention:
Although a behaviour may appear to be bad, hurtful, thoughtless
or harmful it is necessary to look at the context in which
that behaviour appears and the underlying reason for the behaviour
before you realise that every behaviour has a positive purpose.
Most bad behaviours are the result of the person having no
other resources available to them to be able to deal with
a situation. They are simply acting as best they know how
to in that situation. Through using NLP people can learn new
behaviours, or better still, remove underlying negative emotions,
compulsions, habits, and addictions that in turn result in
new alternatives and choices for a person.
People have all the resources they need to succeed:
Everyone has the requisite mental resources and potential
to produce excellent outcomes. If the desired outcome is not
produced, it is due to inappropriate beliefs, inadequate mental
strategy (mental software) or ineffective behavioural patterns.
Within any person are the abundant resources necessary to
alter any beliefs, mental strategies or behaviours. In doing
so any person can produce any outcome. |
| Anybody can do anything: If one person
can do excellent things, by properly understanding their
pattern, their excellence can be repeated by anyone. One
simply has to duplicate or model the belief system, the
mental strategy and the behavioural pattern of successful
people and install them in themselves or somebody else
to produce the same excellent results. If what you are
doing is not working, do something else. |
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| Do anything else: There is
a good saying in NLP, "If you always do what you have
always done, you will always get what you have always got".
If you are attempting to produce a certain result and what
you are doing isn't working it's necessary to look at that
and take it as feedback to try something new to produce the
same result. There is never bad feedback. Feedback is the
life blood to producing fantastic results. Feedback is just
a sign that you have to do something different, anything if
necessary, to what you are already doing to get the result
you want.
The meaning of our communication is the response
we get: People are always communicating, verbally
and non-verbally. Research shows that only 7% of the meaning
of our communication is through words. The rest of the communication
process takes place through body language, tone of voice and
the various signals words cannot convey. That's means that
93% of what we communicate is not from our words!! If we communicate
a message and it is received by a person in a way other than
what we intended than we did not communicate effectively.
Essentially the meaning is not derived from what we meant
but how it was received. The response we get from the other
person is really the meaning of our communication. Both verbally
and non-verbally. To be highly effective at communicating
a person has to be sensitive enough to understand as to how
his communication is being received and processed. The communicator
should be sensitive to eye movements, postural and gestural
complexes, skin colour, muscle tension, breathing rate and
position to understand the quality of how their communication
is being received. If the outcome of any communication is
not what was intended, then you have to change the way you
are communicating the message until the message is received
in the way you want it to be. That's effective communication!
NLP techniques can be applied in the following
major areas:
Personal development: Physical and emotional
well-being is greatly enhanced and individuals learn what
they want to take charge of their lives. They become able
to change limiting beliefs and to better understand and achieve
their own potential.
Personal counselling: Certain problems among
individuals such as allergy, phobia, trauma, unwanted habits
such as nail biting, snoring and the like can be relieved
by using NLP. Counsellors report a great increase in the effectiveness
of their results with clients and their interventions are
usually brief and successful. |
Family counselling: Problems
concerning family members, such as, between husband
and wife, parents and children and the like can be resolved
by improving the quality of communication between the
members of the family. NLP improves the perspectives
of individuals and can assist to build up a mutually
supportive relationship.
Managers and Entrepreneurs: Use the
information to develop strong teamwork and relationships,
and to foster positive interpersonal skills. Negotiations
and problem solving sessions are enhanced to create
solutions orientated, win-win approaches. . |
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| Sales and Marketing: Salespeople
learn to build deep levels of rapport and can be helped to
communicate more effectively with the customers so that the
credibility and the goodwill of the organisation is conveyed.
As well as this, NLP greatly assists in improving qualification
of customers and highly efficient ways of communicating with
customers to promote and sell your service or product.
Education: NLP is widely used in improving
the educational system. The problems of students/teachers
can be improved by applying the NLP concepts. Cases such as
Attention Deficiency Disorder (ADD), Learning Deficiency (LD),
hyper active children and the like can be relieved by use
of NLP techniques. Stage fear, "examination fear'' and
adverse feelings towards certain subjects can be addressed
effectively by use of NLP. And, one of the greatest advances
of NLP in the field of education is the ability to assist
anyone in increasing their grades by improving their learning
"mental software" and implementing states of super-learning.
Sports: Excellence in sports is a state
of mind and unless the sportsmen are in a highly resourceful
state, they cannot be performing at their best. NLP can be
used to improve the state of resourcefulness of sportsmen.
Creativity: People who are in creative fields
such as writing, acting and the like can be helped to improve
their creative ability through NLP techniques. Since NLP addresses
the conscious and subconscious mind, people who have to use
their creative talents can be helped to perform at their optimum
level.
Organisational development: People find
increased productivity and motivation for themselves and their
staff. Negotiation, presentation and influencing skills are
enhanced. By improving the process of communication, an organisation
can reach a wider cross section of employees so that the intention
of the communication is understood and not necessarily only
the content. The relationship between the management and the
union, the management and the employees, the management and
the suppliers can be improved using the NLP approach. |

Applications of NLP in:
- Business
- Coaching
- Personal Development
- Relationships
- Health
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In Business we can use NLP to Master language
& communication! Discover how to:
- Communicate, influence and motivate your colleagues and
your team for top achievement
- Easily communicate with those who often seem "difficult"
to deal with
- Communicate effectively without resistance
- Control your state and stay focused
- Model the strategies and beliefs of successful individuals
and profitable companies
- Obtain agreement quickly with advanced negotiation skills
- Learn effective presentation, leadership and goal setting
techniques
- Gain and maintain your listeners' curiosity and interest
- Identify and clear your limiting beliefs so that you can
go from success to success
- Improve your selling performance by mastering selling
skills, building rapport with your clients and recognising
and support their buying strategies
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| In Personal Development you can use NLP
to create … the future you really want! |
Discover how to:
- Gain control of your life
- Get motivated and stay motivated
- Identify clear outcomes in all areas of your life
- Use S-M-A-R-T criteria for making goals come true
- Eliminate limiting beliefs and decisions
- Release unwanted emotions and behaviours from the
past
- Visualise your future so that it's more compelling,
motivating and exciting for you
- Put your goals in your future time line to achieve
success
- Align your values around money, career, health,
relationships and family for greater success
- Understand how your mind works and take control
of your thoughts, emotions and behaviours
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| In relationships you can use NLP to create
… harmonious, fulfilling relationships! |
Discover how to:
- Attract the right person for you
- Improve the quality of your marriage
- Create ideal relationships
- Create your desired self image
- Create instant rapport with others
- Structure conversation to capture and lead your
partners imagination
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| In health use NLP to create profound improvements
… in your health and well-being! |
Discover how to:
- Eliminate stress
- Access healing states
- Model health and healing
- Eliminate unwanted behaviours and habits
- Create and maintain your ideal weight
- Learn about the mind/body connection
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You will benefit from these trainings if
you interact with people in any capacity or desire personal
improvement. A great tool for:
- Managers and Entrepreneurs
- Business Owners
- Sales people
- Trainers and Educators
- Coaches
- Counsellors
- Medical and Mental Health Professionals
- Athletes
- Entertainers
- Artists
- Parents
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